When someone close to you dies, the grief is overwhelming. What nobody prepares you for is the paperwork. Within days, you'll need to register the death, notify banks, contact insurers, track down the will, and begin untangling an estate that may span decades of accumulated accounts, policies, and property.
It's a lot. And it arrives at the worst possible moment.
This guide walks you through the process step by step — organised by timeframe, with UK-specific details — so you know what to do, when to do it, and which documents you'll need along the way. It won't make it easy, but it will make it clearer.
Week 1 — Immediate Steps
Register the death
In England and Wales, you must register the death within five days (eight days in Scotland). You'll need to visit the register office in the district where the person died — not necessarily where they lived. You can book an appointment online or by phone in most areas.
You'll need to bring:
- The medical certificate of cause of death (issued by the hospital or GP)
- The deceased's birth certificate, if available
- Their NHS medical card, if you have it
- Their marriage or civil partnership certificate, if applicable
- Proof of their address (a recent utility bill or council tax statement)
The registrar will give you a green certificate (the burial or cremation certificate) and a certified copy of the entry in the death register — commonly known as the death certificate.
Order multiple death certificate copies
This is one of the most important pieces of practical advice: order at least ten certified copies. Every bank, insurer, pension provider, and government department will ask for one. Ordering extra copies at the time of registration is far cheaper (around £11 each) than requesting them later. You will use more than you expect.
Notify the GP and relevant authorities
If the death occurred at home, the GP may already know. If it happened in hospital, they'll usually inform the GP. Either way, confirm that the GP practice has been notified — they'll need to update their records, and any repeat prescriptions should be stopped.
If the person was receiving any care services (district nurses, social care, meals on wheels), contact the local authority to cancel these.
Register with the Bereavement Register
Within the first week, register the death with the Bereavement Register (thebereavementregister.org.uk). This is free and stops most direct mail — including marketing letters, catalogues, and charity appeals — addressed to the deceased. It won't stop all post, but it significantly reduces the painful experience of junk mail arriving in a dead person's name for months afterwards.
Weeks 2–4 — Notify Organisations
This is the most time-consuming phase. You'll be contacting multiple organisations, often by phone, and each will have its own process. Keep a notebook or spreadsheet to track who you've contacted, reference numbers, and what they need from you.
Banks and building societies
Contact every bank and building society where the deceased held an account. They'll freeze the account and guide you through their bereavement process. You'll typically need a death certificate and proof of your authority to act (usually the Grant of Probate, once you have it). Joint accounts may continue to operate, but the bank needs to be informed so the account is put into the surviving holder's sole name.
HMRC and DWP — Tell Us Once
The Tell Us Once service is a government scheme that lets you report a death to most government departments in a single step. The registrar will usually give you a Tell Us Once reference number and explain how to use it. This covers:
- HM Revenue & Customs (HMRC)
- Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) — State Pension, benefits
- Passport Office
- DVLA
- The local council (council tax, electoral register, housing benefit)
Not all councils participate in Tell Us Once. If yours doesn't, you'll need to contact each department individually.
Utility providers
Gas, electricity, water, broadband, mobile phone, TV licence — each needs to be notified. If you're keeping the property running for now, ask to transfer the account into a different name. If the property will be vacated, arrange for final meter readings and account closures. Keep a record of all final balances.
Insurance companies
This includes life insurance, home insurance, car insurance, and any other policies. Life insurance claims often require the original policy document, the death certificate, and a completed claim form. If you can't find the policy document, the insurer can usually trace it with the deceased's name and date of birth. Check bank statements for premium payments — this is often the fastest way to identify which insurers to contact.
Mortgage lender or landlord
If the deceased had a mortgage, notify the lender immediately. Payments may need to continue during probate. If they rented, check the tenancy agreement for notice periods. A landlord cannot simply evict remaining occupants — there are legal protections — but you'll need to give formal notice when the time comes.
Employers and pension providers
Contact the deceased's employer to discuss any final salary payments, death-in-service benefits, and workplace pension entitlements. If they were already retired, contact each pension provider separately. Many pension schemes pay a lump sum or ongoing benefits to a surviving spouse or dependant, but only if you make the claim.
Months 1–6 — Probate and Distribution
Apply for Grant of Probate
If the deceased left a will, the named executor applies for a Grant of Probate. If there was no will, the next of kin applies for Letters of Administration. Both give you the legal authority to deal with the estate.
You can apply yourself through the government's online probate service (gov.uk/applying-for-probate) or instruct a solicitor. The application fee is currently £300 (no fee if the estate is under £5,000). Processing typically takes eight to twelve weeks, though it can be longer.
Value the estate
Before probate is granted, you'll need to establish the total value of the estate. This means gathering:
- Bank and savings account balances at the date of death
- Property valuations (you may need a professional surveyor for this)
- Pension and investment values
- Personal possessions of significant value (jewellery, vehicles, art)
- Any debts — mortgages, loans, credit cards, outstanding bills
This information is reported to HMRC on an Inheritance Tax form. If the estate is below the nil-rate band (currently £325,000, or up to £500,000 with the residence nil-rate band), no Inheritance Tax is due — but the form must still be submitted.
Pay debts and Inheritance Tax
Debts must be paid from the estate before any assets are distributed. If Inheritance Tax is due, it must usually be paid within six months of the death — interest accrues after that. Some tax can be paid in instalments for certain assets, particularly property.
Distribute assets per the will
Once probate is granted and debts are settled, you can distribute the remaining assets according to the will — or, if there's no will, according to the rules of intestacy. Keep detailed records of every distribution. As executor, you are personally liable for errors, so consider placing statutory notices in The Gazette to protect yourself against unknown creditors.
Documents You'll Need: A Checklist
Throughout this process, you'll be asked for the same documents repeatedly. Having them organised and accessible saves enormous amounts of time and stress:
- Death certificates — at least 10 certified copies
- The will — the original, plus copies for reference
- Birth certificate of the deceased
- Marriage or civil partnership certificate
- National Insurance number
- Passport and/or driving licence
- Property deeds or mortgage statements
- Bank statements — recent, from all accounts
- Insurance policies — life, home, car, health
- Pension documents — workplace and personal
- Utility bills — to confirm the address and active accounts
- Council tax bill
- Vehicle registration (V5C) if they owned a car
- Investment and ISA statements
- Any loan or credit agreements
If you're reading this list and thinking "I don't know where half of these are" — that's exactly the problem. Most families don't.
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